How to Turn a Lazy Kid Into a Self-motivated Learner...

Even If You've Tried Everything Else and Failed




Have you ever wished to have a self-motivated child who does school work on their own with no nagging, yelling, or arguing?

Motivating kids is always a challenge.

Distance learning really puts parents' motivation strategies to the test...

You sacrifice and stay home so your kid can attend their zoom meetings.

Yet, your child refuses to pay attention in class.

They watch YouTube and play video games.

They ignore homework and even lie about it.

So you take away their iPad, cellphone and video games.

 You revoke their privileges and make them do more chores.

But nothing works.

Every day is a struggle. All you do is fight.

You are at your wit's end.


A lazy child who lied and skipped homework turned into a self-motivated student who went on to earn degrees from Harvard and Stanford...

Yup, that was me.  

Now I apply the same parenting approach I learned from my mother to my own child, and distance learning has been a breeze.

A "lazy child" is not really lazy; they're just unmotivated.

The problem is making them suffer is not motivating.

Punishment doesn't motivate right.

But it's not your fault!

We were never taught the right way to motivate kids.

Not all motivations are created equal.

All you've been told was to set limits, give consequences and use positive reinforcement (aka bribing) to motivate.

None of these can inspire the right kind of motivation.



A Stress-free Way To Motivate Your Child To Learn

What's in this online course:

  • Top 3 ways to effortlessly motivate your child to care about school and complete homework independently without arguing

  • How to avoid the worst demotivator so your child won’t lose their drive in pursuing education and you won’t have to worry about them not making it into college

  • Instill the best kind of motivation in your child so they become self-driven to reach their potential and achieve success

what parents are saying

I just wanted to thank you for your fantastic advice about how to get your child to enjoy homework.  It has always been a challenge to get him to do homework without some resistance.  I tried to make them fun but nothing worked consistently and we have had terrible tantrums.  Today he became the teacher - this morning there was laughter and fun instead of tears.  Your advice has been wonderful and will make homeschooling easier.  Many thanks from a very grateful parent


I was skeptical at first, but tried your method anyway because I was desperate. I let go of feeling like I needed to control their schedule, their screen time and their choices. It worked! My kids don't whine and fight with me about homework anymore. They even do chores all by themselves. I stop worrying and start spending more time relaxing with my kids.


Your discipline method works!  My hubby and I practice this with our son and he often does exactly as we ask about 85% of the time and we are pretty happy with that! 



Did you know study shows that self-motivated students outperform unmotivated students by 34%?

Get in now to help your child become self-motivated.

In this 3-week course, you will receive email support on parenting questions.

This offer is only available during early registration.


$197 $97


  • Special early registration discount
  • 3-week online course
  • Email support on parenting questions
  • 7-day refund policy

Hi, I'm Pamela.

B.Eng Honors, McGill University
MSEE, Stanford University
MBA, Harvard University

I'm a mom, wife, bestselling author and the Editor-in-Chief of Parenting for Brain.

As a Harvard and Stanford grad, I have high expectations for my daughter... I want her to be happy and healthy...

I also want her to succeed in life.

Looking back on my elementary school days, I realized I didn’t always have the self-drive that I do now.

So I studied motivation science to find out how it works.

Turns out that my mother's parenting strategy matches the research and has contributed to my success.

Using research and my own experience, I have developed a motivational strategy that actually works, and in this course, you’ll learn how to use it to help your child develop self-drive.

My strategy is unconventional.

It's not a quick fix you see all over the Internet. You already tried those but they didn't work (or worse, they worked for a week and then your child became even less motivated)

My approach will get you long-term results.

Think of how good it would feel if...

  • You don't have to nag or yell, or have daily fights over schoolwork as your child finishes everything by themselves.
  • You don't have to buy expensive gadgets to bribe your child to get good grades because your child is self-driven to study hard.
  • There is no power struggle. Your child listens without disrespectful attitude.
  • You can spend quality time connecting with your kid instead of battling with them every day

Whether your child is self-motivated to learn or not can mean the difference between getting into a good university or failing and dropping out of school.

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frequently asked questions

This course is for parents of school-aged children who lack motivation to study.

Absolutely. Although every child is different, the strategies in this course are created based on experience and proven science, and can be adapted to kids of different temperaments.

We offer a 7-day refund policy.